Ask me anything, and I'll help you find your way

[balsamandash]

Meme time again I guess? Stolen from a couple of people, because why not.

The problem with LJ/DW: we all think we are so close, but really, we know nothing about each other. So I want you to ask me something you think you should know about me. Something that should be obvious, but you have no idea about. Ask away. Then post this in your journal and find out what people don't know about you.

Comments

[summerstorm]

I relate so much to this. Even after having been in a relationship, it was also long-distance and I can definitely call certain things dates (like, I can't NOT call Steirereck a date; I dressed up, it was hellishly expensive, etc etc) but... IDK that they FELT that much like dates? But what the hell is a date supposed to feel like, anyway.

[balsamandash]

Oh man, I understand entirely. How do you even know, aside from announcing very clearly ahead of time that yes, this is a date? Like, does the fact that you're together intrinsically make all hangouts a date, and if so, does spending the night at somebody's house count? Does that change if you're doing it because otherwise it's hard spending any real amount of time together and there are other people around? Does going to McDonalds count? Going out to hunt Pokemon? Or do you have to decide ahead of time/dress up/do something out of the ordinary? Is the deciding factor somebody spending money? Being unusually romantic? I certainly don't know!

...In short, dating is weird. XD

[summerstorm]

Steirereck was certainly somebody spending money and a date decided ahead of time (it was my first date ever, supposedly), but I think maybe it's hard to see it that way because I just never was that into him?

So weird.